Sometimes even the smallest gesture can impress a woman, while the other times whole lot of preparations cannot do. Women really are complicated and it is a task to impress them. This is what many boys and men think, don’t you? First date is very crucial, as most women do not wait for the next date but decide on the very first date whether the man is worthy to date or not. Therefore, you have to be impressive enough on your first date and here are tips by Dr Prem Jagyasi and his team members that can help you impress her the very first time itself:
Be on time
Nobody likes to wait, and if it is a first date then by no means you can be late. This is the first thing that can be a turn off for her, whom you are trying to impress. Make sure you reach the venue before her, if not hen together, but not late in any case.
Etiquettes
Women like courteous men. If you go to pick her up in the car, open the door for her. Pull out a chair for her at the restaurant, and do not forget to arrange for her return as well. Be courteous enough to pay the bill, even if she forces you stick to your paying the bill.
Look in her eyes, nowhere else
Some men just cannot help their wandering eye, as they feel tempted to check out a beautiful girl from head to toe. If it is your first date, no matter how beautiful and chic the girl is, you have to control your wandering eye and have to fix it on her eyes and nowhere else. Just imagine that if she catches you looking at her chest or legs, it would not be in your good interest at all
Ask her questions
On a first date, two people meet to know things about each other. You should tell her about you but mind you, you should not be only telling her about you but also asking her ample questions about her. She should get a feeling that you are interested to know her, who she is, her interests, whereabouts, personality, and multifarious things. On the other hand, if you will only telling and flaunting about yourself, she will not be interested for sure.
Do not ignore her but your phone
One of the biggest turn off for your date, especially when it your first date, is you taking calls and reading messages while she is talking to you. There can be no other hurting and annoying way to show her that you are ignoring her. You should ignore your cell phone and should try to give her your undivided attention.
Be confident
Women like confident men who can put across their thoughts and opinions in a most convincing way, rather than the ones who start shivering just because they have to start a conversation with a woman. This does not mean you have to be over prepared or pretentious, but you have to be natural and spontaneous.
A perfect mix of polite and mature
Be mature in your talks and behavior so that the woman never gets a feeling that you are unsuitable because you are not mature enough. This again does not mean that you have to be formal with her but your thoughts should be mature and do not forget being polite with her, and the people around.
Summary:
First dates are a deciding factor as to whether the man is worth dating or not. You need not be pretentious but certainly natural and spontaneous.
